Frustrated and scared are an understatement when one learns about their child special condition. There is always the fear and questioning of why me why my baby. However, in a different view special needs, in my sense as a parents means you’re quite special and you will do a perfect job caring for your child. Am not saying it will be easy but promise you will be fine.

Parenting never comes with a manual and getting a special case makes the situation even wanting. In my case and maybe most parents will agree with the statement. Special kids’ parents comes with a particular grace. There is always a way to maneuver and a peace that helps surpass all the trying times. It’s all about understanding and accepting the situation as it unfolds.

Special needs parenting support expectations and support

Parenting kids with special needs has always been challenging. It presents unique set of rules, regulations, and rewards based on their specific needs. Every child is different and unique, and parents /guardians have more responsibilities and dedication when caring for them.

Family members or friends who deal with special needs parents should stay patient and open doors of better communication to avoid misunderstanding. There should be specific special needs parenting support system to help encourage the parents. It is essential to encourage them to share every possible information. Advising them to join special needs parenting support groups for more details is also crucial.

Opinions for special needs parenting support

Working with parents or guardians with special needs children is very challenging. They need warm and loving communication concerning their situations. Encouraging them to join special needs parenting support groups to share their situations is also beneficial. Below are some opinions that will help you support parents/guardian or family members go through different situations.

• Be there for them

Ones presence means a lot, a call or physical presence will give great relief to parents handling a special child. Actually most parents just need that talk time. Majority are strong and past the sympathy stage but just need a normal friendship or companion. Have time to check on your friends and family know their progress. Its sounds simple but holds great significance to every special need family.

• Encourage child friendship

Encouraging friendship between children with special needs and other children is essential. Invite them to accompany your family or pay them a visit with your kids. It is the joy of every parent to see their kids flourish, make friends, and live as everyday life as possible.

• Treat them like a regular friend

Put it in your mind that parents/guardians with special needs kids want to be treated like normal friends. Being in a situation with special needs does not mean their interests differ from yours. Talk to them about their opinions, what they think about life, what they want to do next and more. Always make the situation normal and not sympathetic. Let parenting feel normal for everyone regardless of the child’s medical/special need.  

• Have compassion, not pity

Being a friend of a special needs parent, sometimes it is hard to imagine the challenges your loved one goes through. Don't pity them, but be compassionate. For parents with special needs, demands are very high, and nurturing them is very exhausting. Just offer your services so the parent/guardian can have time to rest or walk.

• Learn about the kid's disability

If you are interested in supporting parents with special needs, start by learning about the disability of the child. A little knowledge will make things easier and show the parent with special needs baby you understand the child. This will make the parent feel more comfortable letting you look after their kid and will appreciate your effort.

• Don't avoid the topic.

Raising the topic of a particular need is efficient. It will always be expected to try and avoid the topic with the parents of special needs about their kid’s disabilities. It is crucial to remember that their kids mean a lot to them. Taking an interest can mean a lot to them and be a simple way of letting them know you care.

• Be kind

It is crucial to be kind and appreciate individual taking care of special needs children or adults. The kindness reciprocates as respects and creates a sense of value. Always understand the situation before acting up or speaking about their children’s condition.  

• Request them the support they may require

If you are unsure what to do or how to help, face the parent and ask. Sometimes, requesting how you can help parents with special needs children is the best way to avoid misunderstanding. This is one way of showing love and value to them. Accepting assistance does not mean you have failed as a parent, but you want the best possible care for your special needs child.

• Make fun together

A great way to support a parent with special needs is to be as inclusive as possible and suggest days of having fun together. Even though the child with a disability may not participate in all activities, they can still enjoy plenty of things. The parents will also have the chance to get outside and enjoy the fresh air.

• Don't ask directly for medication.

Being a friend of a parent with special needs kid, doesn’t guarantee you the honor of suggesting anything medical service you want or think. Research before suggesting and don’t make their efforts feel futile. There are friendly ways of approaching parents without hurting anyone’s feelings. Popping up suggestion may create worry and confusion. However, if the medication may help the child, request a medical specialist to counsel the parent

Conclusion

Special needs doesn’t devalue us but it makes every parent strong. Our/your children are unique and their condition doesn’t define who they are. They are treasured gems with greater value in life.